Editor’s Note: an essay and a memoir for these troubling times. *** The need to belong, to be considered part of a group, is hardwired into us humans. Since we are basically all alike, my story will be your story in one way or another. Here’s mine while you think about your own. When my son…
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Best Movie “Touch”
Editor’s Note: For this Icelandic film, an artistic image of an iceberg on an Icelandic black sand beach. *** I am not a regular movie “goer”, much less a movie reviewer. However, to distract myself from the earth metaphorically tilting on its axis this coming Monday, January 20th, Inauguration Day, I have been earnestly searching…
Frommer’s Europe on $5 a Day
Editor’s Note: This is the edition we must have had 1965-1966. I put it to novel use as you’ll see in this story. You’ll also see how humor saves many a day. *** I recently read in the New York Times that Arthur Frommer has died (November 18, 2024). I have a story to tell…
Remembering Our Heroes
Editor’s Note: Often we write our own memoirs, but sometimes we write other people’s memoirs which, of course, are called biographies. I have written many short biographies starting with my husband’s. Here’s one of our favorites that was published February, 2001 when I was a columnist for the Arizona Daily Sun (Flagstaff). The title was…
These Tender Days
Some random musings . . . Awakened before dawn by my hungry cat, I set up my morning practice: a pot of tea, a lit candle, my notebook to write my Morning Pages in, a few books I’m studying (“Silence: The Power of Quiet in a World Full of Noise” by Zen Buddhist Thich Nhat…
Aging as a Spiritual Practice
Editor’s Note: This small artwork, only 8″ x 8″, is an original oil painting by Arizona artist Bev Johnson. I call it “Grandmother”. I talk to this old woman who represents to me the joys and sorrows of aging, especially for women — happier days sitting in a circle weaving her clothes with women friends;…
Metta, the Buddhist Nun
The last time we lived in Sedona, Arizona, there was a Buddhist nun living in our neighborhood. We were to learn her name was Metta, the Sanskrit word for lovingkindness. Buddhism teaches that metta is not just an emotion, but rather a cultivated mental state in which our attention and concern are directed toward the…
Living Aboard Our Second Sailboat: Gemini 1000
Editor’s Note: The story of our first sailboat, Gone Away, was published on February 29, 2024. Here is Gemini 1000, our beautiful catamaran, shortly after we moved aboard at Eaton’s Boatyard in Castine, Maine on Penobscot Bay. What experiences awaited us? Exciting, terrifying, and more. Hint: the the twin swim ladders on the stern. On a…
Living Life with the Horse Gene
Author/Editor Note: This painting “Ride Like the Wind” by Debbie Criswell is a wonderful metaphor for my sister. In writing my memoir for my Storyworth book project, I ended up telling her story. As often happens with memoirists, we become biographers. My sister, Susan Reinke, was born with the horse gene. Those of you who…
Living Aboard Our First Sailboat: Gone Away
It all started with sailing magazines that arrived in our mailbox. Seems innocuous enough, doesn’t it? But we weren’t living near a body of water, large or small; no, we were living in Sedona, the Red Rock country of Arizona. What was going on? Well, what was going on was husband Ken Normington was planting…